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Okay guys, lets dive into the main topic that will be conversation for today which is 'Gossips'. Based on my understanding, gossips is an action or activity where humans share information (no matter positive or negative) about others to some specific person or either a group of friends. Well you don't have to feel guilty or hide yourself if this topic is related about you. Because you know what, gossip is not a bad word or bad habbit though.For your information, 90 percentage of the conversation of a person will be gossips. Its all about good stuff if you use that (to gossips) wisely and carefully.
But sadly the fact is that many people in this society gossips to destroy someone's dignity and happiness. There are even some who reveals an individual's secrets as a sake to pass their time in a 'fun' way. This caused many to break down emotionally due to this problem. Furthermore, someone's important days in life such as school and college days could be as bitter as it can be as a result from negative gossips around them.
If you think you have been a part of them who makes others look bad, please get away from this toxic society. By now a question might be arise in you. "Then what should I talk about if it is not about others?" Well, you are not asked to not talk about others but chat something positive about someone or something to others instead of bashing someone and spreading negative talks around.
For an instance, you can still talk something that you admire in a person who you dislike because there is also something good left in them for certain although you see them as a one who has two horns on their head 😂. This will make you feel better and good about yourself. But honestly this is gonna be hard for many people. In that case, you are welcomed to follow what i personally often do when I face this kind of situation. I will be patient, zip my mouth and give some time to whom I slightly hates to show me something good about them. Guess what? I will eventually fall in love with their character. In conclusion, don't judge a character of a story within a few lines you read.
However, you should not be confused between gossips and opening your heart to someone. Gossips is actually an action which talks or discusses about something to others to pass their time (they are not disturb emotionally by the person's action, but instead they just have some small hatred towards the person) meanwhile opening your heart to someone is an action where you are emotionally disturb by someone so you will express your anger, sorrow and stress to a person(mostly with the one you are close to) Just a kind reminder from your buddy, please open your heart to someone who is trustable if you are emotionally tired.
Okay now lets discuss on how to bring positivity and changes through gossips. Changes can be done to this society when you starts to gossips about political issues and sosio-scientific issues that is going on in your country and the world as well. The logic behind this statement is that you will actually educate others and you yourselves on the solution for the problems as you gossips about it.
I will always gossips about the faults on the education system and government in my country to my friends and family. Through this gossips, I learnt variety of solutions and information about it. As we all know, the first step to bring changes is to discussed and educate within ourselves. This will also ensure that we spend our time wisely without hurting others. Unconsciously, gossips like this will also eventually increase our patriotism towards the country by acknowledging the problems in our country.
WOW! I am exhausted thinking words and sentences to describe my idea of positivity in gossips. It all depends on us to change something from good to bad and bad to good.
Lyrics from a tamil song (https://youtu.be/nCNqPgXDYhY
Don't be the person spreading hatred mappi,
Pinadi pesuruthu rombo crappy,
Always be polite and just don't be nasty,
You will be the reason to make someone happy..........
Changes starts within me, within you and within us. See you soon in another blog...
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