All About Masturbation

Hey guys, I know it had been so long since I posted any blogs. Well, I was quite busy and lack of motivation to write but NO WORRIES because I am back with an interesting and important subject as well to discuss with you. Of course, you must know what am I going to talk about if you are already here but still it's my duty to remind you again on the purpose you are here. Today's topic will be all about MASTURBATION but before going any futher let me tell you a short story on how I get to know that something called masturbation exists in the world.

As usual, I get to know the word masturbation like how I get to know the word sex. Did you get what I say? Well, I am referring to MOVIES here!!! I get to know the word 'masturbation' by watching movies. But of course I don't understand what they meant by masturbation as the director don't explain about it maybe because he might assumed that all his audience understands what it mean and hence I mistaken masturbation for having sex and guess what I found that I was wrong this time too after doing some research about it.

Masturbation is not about having sex at all (NOTE THIS!!!). Masturbation is an action where the individual will have self pleasure by rubbing their body parts such as penis, breast, vagina, vulva

(female external genital) and clitoris (a small sensitive erecticle part of the female genitals at the anterior end of the vulva) on their own. In simple words, masturbation is a way to have self pleasure without a partner's help. Anyone will and can masturbate. No matter you are married or not. No matter which gender you are or what age you are. When I am saying no matter what age you are so that includes a boy or girl from 10 to 12 as well. This might be a shock, gross or shame to you but it is perfectly NORMAL and FINE. Have you ever came across a small kid rubbing their private parts? If yes but you don't have an idea on what are they trying to do, well the answer is simple; they are masturbating. Some kids masturbate to explore their body while some feels good about which is again perfectly normal.

And so if you come across situation like this in future please don't threat them bad and make them feel bad about themselves but instead ask them to do it privately in bedroom or bathroom. You should always remember that they are just an innocent kid with no bad intention and this is absolutely normal and human's nature as well. However, make sure they don't hurt their private parts as they masturbate. If this happens, bring them to a doctor for a consultation.

Although masturbation is perfectly fine and not harmful but they are many objections from religion sides and there are even who consider masturbating is a sin but I am not here to make a debate about that because everyone has their own believes and opinions about it but instead let's see what science says about masturbation. Is is RIGHT or WRONG?

For your surprise the majorities are pros than cons. Here are the pros:

1. Reduce stress

2. Reduce sexually transmitted diseases

3. You won't get pregnant (since you will have self pleasure without having sex )

4. Helps in relaxation

5. Promotes better sleep

6. Enhances self-esteem and body image

Myths and taboo about masturbation :

1. Infertility

2. Sexual perversion

3. Reduced sexual function

4. Mental health issues

5. Blindness

Although there are lots of pros, please keep in mind that masturbation is not advisable if your private part is injured as this could make the situation worse. Besides this, please don't masturbate just because masturbating is not wrong or its fine. If its fine to masturbate, then it is also fine if you don't.Its just depends on you. This is because masturbating could be uncomfortable if you have sexual trauma or if you feel its wrong to you ethically. Well, I think thats all for today. See you in my next blog. And don't forget to leave your opinion on masturbation in the comment box below. Have a nice day friends.